霸道的女孩什么样？
“霸道”这个词在中文里是一个贬义词，但用在英文中，“be/get/become + 霸道”是个非常常见的搭配，表示「变得……」，通常后面接的是褒义词。 所以从英文的角度来看，「变得霸道」其实是可以的；而且很多故事里，主人公一开始都是不霸道的，然后经历了一些事情后，他们「变得霸道了」。 在《泰坦尼克号》里，Rose最初是懦弱、羞怯的，她甚至没有勇气承认她对杰克的爱，而只是远远地看着他；但当杰克死去之后，Rose变成了一个“新的人”（a new person），不再畏首畏尾，而是勇敢地追求自己向往的生活——这就叫「变得霸道」啦！ 类似的例子还可以举出许多： So if you are not happy with the way your relationship is going and you want to "become more assertive" in it， try saying something like this： "You know how we've always had problems communicating our feelings with each other？ Well I think now is the time to let those feelings be known. I have loved and cared for you so much these past years but I just don't feel that love anymore. You deserve someone who will take care of you and respect you completely， and I wish that person was me，but right now，I am afraid my feelings are going to make us both miserable. I need to start moving on in order to heal from this sadness because staying stuck in a cycle of unhappiness will only hurt us even more in the long run. And while I do believe there is hope for our future happiness，we may never find it in our current state. You deserve better than what I can offer at this stage of my life. So what I'm trying to say here is…I can't commit to being with you any longer. "